So Sis this one got me. So let’s jump into it: I have been with my man for 5+ years and we have (3) children one of them is his & he is a great father to all. I’m pretty happy except for one issue, my man is use to dating the Instagram model type & that I am not her. He has a type & I definitely do not fit the look. I don’t have the nice round big butt & the huge breast that he is used to. Although he tells me that he loves me and my body. I can’t help but to always feel conflicted & my man always looks at “HIS” type when we are out. Not necessarily in a disrespectful way, but he looks. We were out to dinner the other night with five other couples and a female walked by. Oh, he looked and she looked back. What I noticed that night was none of the other boyfriends or husbands did. They continued to focus on their women & the conversation at hand. It’s not insecurity, at this point I think it’s actually the maturity in me that makes me think that it's time for me to leave & find someone who loves me in every way & only has eyes for me.
I feel you said it best, it’s about maturity. The petty side in me says serve the same energy but the 42 year old says exit out if it’s a consistent thing. We has women make an excuse for everything if it’s what we want, but what about what we deserve!? So I say life is too short enjoy it and if it means alone with your kids then do it. But don’t let the” consistency“ in your relationship be the insecurity he brings into your life.
ReplyDeleteAmen to that Sis!
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