YOu got to celebrate Your Self Sis!

 Well I got week 1 under my belt & I’m feeling pretty motivated👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

I’ve had random strangers join the tribe & people ask questions, that genuinely needed help and advice. So where do I start?

By telling You to Celebrate YOu Sis & the little successes because it takes a step forward to start getting us out of these holes.

So a question that hit me this week: “WHY AM I STUCK? Am I stuck? Everyone else seems to be moving on!” This question came from a grieving young adult who lost a parent. Here was my answer, but Tribe please feel free to add more this is the support that we want & need. 

There is no such thing as a clock when it comes to grief because everyone grieves in their own time and way, there just isn’t a book. You cannot judge someone for the way that they grieve, you may only see the superficial way they deal with their pain. Because someone deals differently or takes longer it doesn’t mean its wrong or there’s less hurt or that they have moved on. In death there are so many moving pieces that are housed in the hearts and minds of others. No simple or just one answer to this complex question Sis. So never come down on yourself for Feeling that how you know your alive.

Counseling is also a great outlet because it a judgement free space. ALL & ALL STUCK YOU ARE Not Sis and Alone YOu are never!