But, BFF I'm in love with You????

So this week came to me in different way, but here it is anyway.

"I saw you on facebook group link under a title 'Real Girl Problems'. I am a guy but I have a real girl challenge and I need an expert or a female with much experience to give me some good advice. RGP Answer: And what might I ask is the problem?

"I have a girl who I ❤️ so much and I haven't touched her cos I respect her but I think cos of that she seems to wanna friend zone me. I know she cares about me too so much. How can I flip from being friendzoned to her man decisively?"

RGP Answer: Communication is key. You have to speak to her about why you haven’t touched her. If you do not she will think it’s for other reasons like you look at her as just a friend. If you never tell her then your window of opportunity will be lost. Take the Leap & let her know how you feel. Best of luck to you!! "Salud ma! I'll keep you abreast as it pans out… RGP Opinion Continued: Well there are several reasons not to have sex before marriage & several reasons to say the internet lol. It all depends on your thoughts, upbringing, religious background, or even where you are in your life’s journey at this time. Whatever your opinion may be here are some pros and cons on both sides.

10 pros of sex before marriage 1. Establishing sexual identity If we do not explore our sexual side, we cannot grow naturally and develop into it, and that means that we cannot truly understand where our sexual identity. 2. Developing sexual experience You are considering marriage, and settling down, you wouldn’t marry somebody who is too childlike, or naive at life.  3. Assessing sexual compatibility Physical intimacy is an essential component of a marriage that requires effort and attention.  4. Identifying sexual problems There is a myriad of sexual problems that can occur. 5. Better understanding with partner Once you get into a relationship and make a choice of sex before marriage, your understanding with your partner becomes better. 6. Better communication of feelings With sex before marriage, you are able to communicate your feelings better. 7. Higher happiness rate A relationship that involves sex witnesses higher levels of happiness. 8. General reduced levels of stress One of the benefits of premarital sex is that partners have less stress and arguments in the relationship. 9. Better intimacy with the partner It’s not unusual to be in a relationship and to be physically attracted to your partner, but then to end up being completely turned off when things become physically intimate. 10. Better health One of the reasons to have sex before marriage is that it is known that sex leads to better health.

Below are reasons to wait until marriage for sex. * It can block your chances of knowing true love. * Immediately you give in to the person, you are tempted to think that that is the best choice for you until you realised that you have made the wrong choice. * It could prevent you from ever knowing God’s best for your life. How can you know God when you are entangled in sin? * It is dangerous and risky. This is because it could land the individual into situations like unwanted pregnancy, Sexually Transmitted Diseases etc… * Having sex while you are not married can fool you into marrying the wrong person. Very often people say “I need someone who is good in bed.” * The word of God is completely against it. * Your body is a temple. * It is a command to wait and not have sex before marriage. * We are expected to be an example and role model to the world. * Sex was created for marriage.

Whatever your reason is for or against communication with your partner is first & foremost. A relationship is nothing without that! So many relationships fail for lack of. If my Real Guy would just share his views with his Real Girl laying it all on the table things would be clear for all parties involved. Giving everyone all the information needed to make an honest decision. So come on Real Guy just COMMUNICATE! 😘 We are all routing for YOu! Hey Tribe care to chime in & help Bro with a word? I bet he'd appreciate it & so would I! 😘